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Sunday, September 6, 2009

*waves* still alive

Breaking silence because this article made me do this:
















.- The Archbishop of Cincinnati Daniel Pilarczyk, citing his duty to safeguard authentic Catholic teaching, has barred a religious sister from teaching on behalf of the archdiocese after she refused to adhere to Catholic teaching on the ordination of women.

Sister of Charity Louise Akers, 66, was listed as an advisory board member for the Women’s Ordination Conference. Her photo and name were also on the site.

In April the archdiocese’s Office of Catechesis and Evangelization removed her from its list of approved teachers and speakers for archdiocesan programs and events.

In an early August meeting, she and Archbishop Pilarczyk discussed her removal from the list. According to the Catholic Telegraph, the archbishop told her that permission to teach would be restored if she rescinded her support for women’s ordination and disassociated herself from the Women’s Ordination Conference publicly.

Sister Louise has removed her name and photo from the group’s website but has said she cannot publicly withdraw her support for women’s ordination.

Speaking to the Cincinnati Enquirer, Sister Louise said her position concerned “an issue of justice within the Church” motivated by her belief in “the value, dignity and equality of women in the Church.”

According to the Enquirer, she characterized women’s ordination as both a practical and a fairness issue. She claimed the practice would address a shortage of priests and would put women on equal footing with men in the church.

Archdiocese spokesman Dan Andriacco told the Enquirer that the refusal of permission to Sister Louise was based on the principle that “someone who is teaching in the name of the church should be in accord with the teachings of the church.”

"Some people argue that ordaining women is a justice issue," Andriacco said. "The Church would say there is only injustice when you deprive someone of something they have a right to. Ordination is not a right, nor is the ability to teach in the name of the Church."

He added that the Church clearly states that because Christ chose only male apostles, the Church must ordain only male priests.

The Catechism of the Catholic Church says that the ordination of women “is not possible,” as only a baptized man validly receives sacred ordination.

Sister Barbara Hagedorn, president of the Sisters of Charity of Cincinnati, said in a written statement that Sister Louise is “a member in good standing” and reported that the sister cannot “refute her beliefs on this issue” as “a matter of conscience.”

According to the Catholic Telegraph, she added “the issue remains between the archbishop and Sister Louise Akers,” saying the Sisters of Charity of Cincinnati support Sister Louise “and all those involved in this difficult situation.”

Erin Saiz Hanna, executive director of the Women's Ordination Conference, claimed that the archbishop’s denial of permission for Sister Louise to teach was “just bullying,” the Enquirer reports.

Archbishop Pilarczyk discussed the case with The Catholic Telegraph.

“Questions have been raised about the role of a diocesan bishop and the teaching of catechetics in his diocese. It is a bishop’s responsibility to provide authentic and orthodox Catholic teaching in his diocese. Persons who are not in accord with the teaching of the church should not expect to be allowed to teach catechetical leaders or others in the name of the church.”

He explained that teachers of the Catholic faith teach more than infallible doctrines, but what is in the Catechism of the Catholic Church.

Tricia Hempel, editor of the Catholic Telegraph, told CNA in a Friday phone call that no further statement on the case would be issued.


Four for you, Archbishop. You go, Archbishop!

Monday, June 22, 2009

Thursday Thunks, late as always

1. Are your ears dirty?
I don't think so, no... I don't wash behind the ears EVERY time, but they're clean.

2. Would you rather be stung by a scorpion or bit by a snake? (Don't say either...no one wants to be in pain, that's the point. Pick one.)
Probably stung by a scorpion... with snakes, there's no way I could identify it (unless it's obvious, like a rattlesnake) so I'd probably die before they could figure out what kind of anti-venom to give me. I don't think scorpions work like that... Do they?

3. Do loud noises make you snappish? (i.e. A loud restaurant, screaming child next to you, booming stereo from a neighbor's house?)
Not usually - unless it's a screaming child and the parents don't look like they even care that their kid is screaming bloody murder in the middle of Target and ruining everyone else's shopping experience. This happened to me about 3 weeks ago and I wanted to punch the mother. Instead, I just twittered about it.

4. PETA- thoughts on this org.?
Crazy nutters. There are MUCH better ways to get their point across. Also, people are more important than animals. That's just the way the world is. Deal.

5. Would you rather be the discoverer of the Loch Ness Monster or Bigfoot? (Imagination!)
Oooh, Nessie, definitely. I feel like Bigfoot would ultimately be a bit of a letdown. A giant dragon in Scotland, however... HELLO.

6. When in a public toilet and it's not flushed: do you flush & use or move on to a clean one?
Most times I will just move to a clean one. If it looks relatively sanitary, though (as in, pretty clear pee, and one thing of toilet paper), occasionally I will flush and use.

7. Neighbors are having a noisy, party bonfire, what do you do?
Join in? I love fire!

8. Do you play Monopoly? If so which version of the game?
I don't really like Monopoly all that much, but if I'm playing, I'm playing classic Monopoly. Although I want the UNC version.

9. Are you a remote hog?
YES. I love my TV programs. I'll be nice about it, though - I'll genuinely offer to put something else on. (But I don't really mean it. Leave me alone when Daisy of Love is on!)

10. Do you like the smell of paint?
No. But I like the smell of chlorine, which I'm told is just as weird.

Thursday, June 18, 2009

Closure

So, yesterday was the one-year anniversary (because I'm dumb and anniversaries are important to me) of the day I found out that The Ex was lying to me and doing all sorts of things that not only were just trashy behavior in general, but also that devalued me, our friendship, and the relationship we used to have. I had never experienced pain like that before, and it really rocked me.

But now it's been a year. To celebrate, I took the day off from work (I have a lot of sick days saved up!), took all the stuffed animals and clothes/etc to Goodwill... Had mussels and an entire bottle of champagne for dinner, then took all the love letters and photos and playbills (and anything else flammable) and burned it ALL, piece by piece. I don't think there is a single thing in my house left that he gave me. Except a couple pairs of sweatpants, because, hello... and one stuffed animal that I have hidden away because I can't bear to part with it but I can't bear to look at it either. Feels good to be completely cleansed.

I feel like I've come so far in the last year. I've made some mistakes, of course, and done some things that I'm not overly proud of... and the passion that I had for my religion last summer has faded a little bit... but I've grown up a lot and I know myself so much better now. It's funny to see the bigger picture now, in hindsight. And while I regret even setting eyes on him all those years ago, my life now is a beautiful one and I'm hopeful about the future. Just putting it in God's hands this time.

Monday, June 15, 2009

Thursday Thunks...

...Because for some reason I am otherwise totally unmotivated to blog. You may have noticed. Sorry.

1. What is your least favorite candy bar?
It's possible to dislike chocolate? I guess those Hersheys "Cookies and Cream" bars are pretty disgusting...

2. If I were to call you, what would you say?
"Who is this, again? Why are you calling me?"

3. What is your favorite type of leaf?
Um... I love Japanese maple trees because of the colors...

4. When was the last time you....
- had sex?

No comment.
- swam in a lake?
Swam? Probably 4 years. I was in a lake two years ago, but not actually swimming.
- went barefoot outside?
Two days ago... it was thunderstorming and I stood out on the patio for a while.
- ate peas?
YEARS. I HATE PEAS.

5. Since Father's Day is right around the corner, tell us about the person that you are celebrating.
I could talk for days about how awesome my dad is :) Too bad he's out of the country for the holiday.
6. Were you dropped on your head as a child?
No, but my dad nearly threw me through a window once. Until I piped up and said "Da-Da" for the first time. He's been wrapped around my finger ever since. ;)

7. How often do you clean your toilet?
Every three weeks or so? It keeps itself pretty clean normally.

8. Have you ever been sunburned? Tell us about it.
Oh lord yes. Last time was about a month ago, and it hurt to MOVE for like 4 days.

9. On average, how many hours a sleep do you get a night?
6.5 ... I should get more, but I'm a night owl and don't really get sleepy before 11:30 at the very latest.

10 How many hours did you get last night?
6.5

11. Take a picture of something. Post it.
My penny jar at work. I don't know why I have it.











12. Are the bottom of your feet dirty?

No. I mean, it's only 9:45am. I would hope they're not dirty already!

13. Do you know the names of every member of the family who lives next door to you?
Absolutely not. I don't know the names of anyone who lives in my entire complex (save one, who was my friend before she moved in).

Friday, June 5, 2009

Oh, gross

As much as I complain about being sooooooo tired of politics and Obama-bashing (not that I don't agree, just that I'm sick of hearing about it! I just want to hide for the next 4 years and pretend he doesn't exist)... this is just really annoying. The headline is pointed, though, which makes it funny.

Emphases and comments mine.

From CNA: Christian leaders applaud Obama's words, wait for his actions

U.S. President Barack Obama delivered an address to the Muslim world on Thursday at Cairo University, calling for religious tolerance, an end to violent extremism, and a two-state solution to the Israeli-Palestinian conflict (which is what the Pope asked for a couple weeks ago... we'll see whose influence pulls more weight - I'm sure the result will be pretty disheartening for REAL Catholics). Christian leaders from the Middle East described the speech as a “clear change,” but asked that the president’s words be backed up by action. The president said in his speech that relations between the West and Islam have included “coexistence and cooperation but also conflict and religious wars.” Remarking that colonialism and the Cold War had helped feed tensions, he said “violent extremists” like those who committed the 9/11 attacks had made some Americans fearful and mistrustful of Islam.

“So long as our relationship is defined by our differences, we will empower those who sow hatred rather than peace, those who promote conflict rather than the cooperation that can help all of our people achieve justice and prosperity. And this cycle of suspicion and discord must end,” he said.

Describing “civilization’s debt to Islam,” the president claimed that American Muslims have enriched the United States since its founding.

The president quoted “the Holy Koran” several times in his speech. He also cited the Bible and the Talmud once each. (WOW I AM SO SURPRISED HERE.)

Criticizing Americans’ stereotypes of Muslims, he also said that America does not fit the “crude stereotype of a self-interested empire.” (Um, actually, that's what capitalism means. Kind of.)

Praising American traditions of religious freedom, he said: “Islam is a part of America. And I believe that America holds within her the truth that regardless of race, religion, or station in life, all of us share common aspirations.” (Yeah, but then there are those divergent aspirations... like crashing airplanes and killing infidels.)

Insisting that the United States is not “at war with Islam,” he denounced toleration of violent extremists.

He also described plans to invest in building Pakistani and Afghan infrastructure, schools and hospitals before saying America has the responsibilities of helping Iraq forge its future and to “leave Iraq to Iraqis.”

Turning to the Israeli-Palestinian conflict, President Obama professed respect for both the Palestinian and the Jewish people. (Augggghhhhhh. We have to be pro-Israel! This is part of our American heritage! You can't be on both sides of the argument here... you have to pick sides at some point.)

Noting historical persecution of Jews, he also said Palestinians, both Muslims and Christians, have suffered “in pursuit of a homeland.”

President Obama pointed to the stalemate between the two peoples, and called for a two-state resolution to the conflict so that Israelis and Palestinians may each live in “peace and security.”

“Palestinians must abandon violence. Resistance through violence and killing is wrong and it does not succeed,” he said, noting the advance of American blacks in the peaceful U.S. civil rights movement. (But who says that Malcolm X was totally unsuccessful and unhelpful to the Civil Rights Movement?)

“At the same time, Israelis must acknowledge that just as Israel's right to exist cannot be denied, neither can Palestine's,” (I'm ok with this) he said, rejecting the legitimacy of continued Israeli settlements.

“Israel must also live up to its obligation to ensure that Palestinians can live and work and develop their society,” he said, declaring the Gaza humanitarian crisis to be a threat to Israel’s security.

Rejecting the use of the Arab-Israeli conflict to distract the people of Arab nations from other problems, he called on Arab states to assist in resolving the conflict.

“Too many tears have been shed. Too much blood has been shed. All of us have a responsibility to work for the day when the mothers of Israelis and Palestinians can see their children grow up without fear; when the Holy Land of the three great faiths is the place of peace that God intended it to be; when Jerusalem is a secure and lasting home for Jews and Christians and Muslims, and a place for all of the children of Abraham to mingle peacefully together as in the story of Isra, when Moses, Jesus, and Mohammed, peace be upon them, joined in prayer,” President Obama remarked, using a Muslim expression. (Wait, what? *head explodey*)

Turning to the issue of democracy, he rejected imposing democracy but pledged support for “human rights.”

“Governments that protect these rights are ultimately more stable, successful and secure. Suppressing ideas never succeeds in making them go away. America respects the right of all peaceful and law-abiding voices to be heard around the world, even if we disagree with them.”

He also pledged support for “all elected, peaceful governments” provided they govern with respect for “all their people.”

Praising what he called Islam’s “proud tradition of tolerance,” he called for preserving “religious diversity” for Marionites and Copts while calling for an end to divisions between Sunni and Shia Muslims.

Discussing women’s rights, he said all humanity must be allowed “to reach their full potential.”

Several Middle East Christian leaders responded positively to the president’s speech.

The Guardian of the Holy Land (who is apparently the head Franciscan in the area, like the head of a monastery, except of a region), Fr. Pierbattista Pizzaballa, told SIR news that the speech marked a “clear change” that will be welcomed in the Arab world.

“It encourages our hopes for the future,” he said.

Fr. Pizzaballa remarked that President Obama was “very balanced” in confirming a link with Israel but also assuming a “new position” with the Arab world.

“This new position is a new beginning, a change of strategy and relationships which will give a further impulse to the search for a solution of the main problem, the one of the Israeli-Palestinian conflict.”

Change will imply sacrifices by both Israel and Palestinians, who will have to reconsider their positions, he said.

Fr. Pizzaballa said it was an “important novelty” that President Obama addressed Hamas and asked for the immediate acknowledgment of Israel. Also notable was the president’s acknowledgement of peaceful nuclear plants for Iran.

“Maybe Israel didn’t like those themes,” the Guardian added. “Obama pledged with respect to both Israel and Palestinians, in a balanced way.”

“Certainly, the U.S. want a new image before the Arab world; today, that image is negative. However, one speech is not enough, real facts are necessary. Today I saw a sincere, resolute and transparent Obama,” Fr. Pizzaballa told SIR.

The Chaldean Bishop of Cairo Youssef Sarraf, who was present at the University of Cairo for the speech, told SIR the president’s words were important but needed to be supported by action.

“This speech would have been necessary long ago,” he said. “The U.S. president had the courage to make it, choosing Egypt for its position and its weight in the Middle East and in the Muslim world.”

The message of the speech, he said, is to encourage cooperation to address “a whole agenda” of issues such as democracy, terrorism, religious freedom, human rights, the dignity of women and globalization. These issues, Bishop Sarraf said, are “the core of debate between moderates and fundamentalists in the Muslim world.”

“We hope that Islam and the Arab world will be able to accept this helping hand.”

Excuse me while I go barf or something.

Thursday, June 4, 2009

June 4

On this day in history...

1584 – Sir Walter Raleigh establishes the first English colony on Roanoke Island, old Virginia (now North Carolina).
1919 – Women's rights: The U.S. Congress approves the 19th Amendment to the United States Constitution, which guarantees suffrage to women, and sends it to the U.S. states for ratification. (And sends a clear message to pushy broads everywhere.) ;-)

Born:
1951 – Charles Dickinson, American author
1975 – Angelina Jolie, American actress

Died:
2009 - David Carradine, American actor (RIP, Bill. You were finally "killed.")

I almost forgot it was Thursday!

Probably because this week has been stretching ON AND ON AND ON.

Thursday Thunks!

1. How many golf balls can fit inside a full sized school bus?
Oh sweet! That's like a really huge version of that "how many gumballs are in this jar?" game! I was always pretty good at that... so... maybe... 1700?

2. Who decided the alphabet order?
Your mom.

3. Why doesn't McDonald's sell hotdogs?
Would YOU buy hotdogs from McDonald's? Then again, I probably would... if it's half as addicting as their Filet-O-Fish (I KNOW, I KNOW) then I'd be in trouble.

4. You go to a nice restaurant and they are offering free samples of cheese. You take a bite and it's delicious. Then they tell you the cheese is processed with maggots in it which make the great texture and flavor. Do you vomit at the thought of maggots, think "oh well but no more", or just ask for another sample?
I would never be stupid enough to try cheese without knowing something about it (like, where does it come from, what consistency does it have, whether it's sweet or nutty or... you get the picture. I love cheese but I like to know about it before I put it in my mouth.

5. Would you rather ride on a cloud or slide down a rainbow?
Definitely ride on a cloud. I imagine it'd be like floating on one of those clear plastic inflatable pool rafts.

6. Do you know/care who Heidi & Spencer are?
Unfortunately yes. And I can't stand them.

7. Have you ever used Butt Paste?
What now?

8. Pie or cake?
Pie... but just ASK ME about cake or death! ;)

9. Do you remember when MTV used to play music videos?
No... I didn't have MTV growing up, and it was all trash by the time I got to college. I did, however, watch vh1 descend from "actually about music sometimes" to "selling out with trashy reality shows."

Most Sacred Heart of Jesus... have mercy on us

I have been told by many bloggers (a reliable source for sure!) that June is dedicated to the Sacred Heart. So here's a recycled post from my previous blog, but it's my favorite act of dedication or prayer or what-have-you.

I give myself and consecrate to the Sacred Heart of our Lord Jesus Christ my person and my life, my actions, pains, and sufferings, so that I may be unwilling to make use of any part of my being save to honor, love, and glorify the Sacred Heart.

This is my unchanging purpose, namely, to be all His, and to do all things for the love of Him, at the same time renouncing with all my heart whatever is displeasing to Him.

I therefore take Thee, O Sacred Heart, to be the only object of my love, the guardian of my life, my assurance of salvation, the remedy of my weakness and inconstancy, the atonement for all the faults of my life and my sure refuge at the hour of death.

Be then, O Heart of goodness, my justification before God Thy Father, and turn away from me the strokes of His righteous anger. O Heart of love, I put all my confidence in Thee, for I fear everything from my own wickedness and frailty; but I hope for all things from Thy goodness and bounty.

Do Thou consume in me all that can displease Thee or resist Thy holy will. Let Thy pure love imprint Thee so deeply upon my heart that I shall nevermore be able to forget Thee or to be separated from Thee. May I obtain from all Thy loving kindness the grace of having my name written in Thee, for in Thee I desire to place all my happiness and all my glory, living and dying in true bondage to Thee.

-Saint Margaret Mary Alacoque

Wednesday, June 3, 2009

Not going well.

This is how I think I must look when I'm looking for jobs.








Sigh.

Saturday, May 30, 2009

Wooo!


Excuse you, HOW HOT are these shoes??? And I got them for $25 - which is 1/2 off the original price!!

This has been such a great weekend so far...

Friday, May 29, 2009

The silver lining

By now, most of you have heard about the Fr. Cutié scandal. It's a sad thing, and should rightfully make people angry... but one perspective I hadn't thought about until just now was how confused the members of his parish must feel. But Abp. Favalora apparently has a pastoral heart, and had this to say. It's long, so some key points (emphases and comments mine):

According to our canon law, with this very act [of announcing that he is leaving the Catholic Church and becoming an Episcopalian] Father Cutié is separating himself from the communion of the Roman Catholic Church (c. 1364, §1) by professing erroneous faith and morals, and refusing submission to the Holy Father (canon 751). He also is irregular for the exercise of sacred orders as a priest (canons 1041 and 1044, §1) and no longer has the faculties of the Archdiocese of Miami to celebrate the sacraments; nor may he preach or teach on Catholic faith and morals (cannon 1336, §1). His actions could lead to his dismissal from the clerical state.

This means that Father Cutié is removing himself from full communion with the Catholic Church and thereby forfeiting his rights as a cleric. Roman Catholics should not request the sacraments from Father Cuité. [sic] Any sacramental actions he attempts to perform would be illicit. Any Mass he says would be valid but illicit, meaning it does not meet a Catholic’s obligation. Father Cutié cannot validly officiate at marriages of Roman Catholics in the Archdiocese of Miami or anywhere.

Father Cutié is still bound by his promise to live a celibate life, which he freely embraced at ordination. Only the Holy Father can release him from that obligation.
And:
Father Cutié may have abandoned the Catholic Church; he may have abandoned you. But I tell you that the Catholic Church will never abandon you; the Archdiocese of Miami is here for you. (I LOVE this!)
And:
Father Cutié’s actions have caused grave scandal within the Catholic Church, harmed the Archdiocese of Miami − especially our priests – and led to division within the ecumenical community and the community at large. Today’s announcement [about the Episcopalian thing] only deepens those wounds.
And:
In my nearly 50 years as a priest, I have often preached on Jesus’ parable of the Prodigal Son – which really should be called the parable of the Forgiving Father (Luke 15, 11-32). Perhaps the story told by the Lord so long ago is applicable to our discussions this afternoon.

...

In this beautiful parable Jesus teaches us that God is a loving and forgiving Father. Each of us has experienced that love, each of us needs that forgiveness; for we are all sinners. If our brother comes home, let us celebrate with the Father.
Finally:
In conclusion, I commend and salute the priests of the Archdiocese of Miami and all priests who faithfully live and fulfill their promise of celibacy. By their fidelity to their promise they reflect more clearly to the world the Christ whose total gift of himself to the Father was pure and chaste love for his brothers and sisters. In our times so pre-occupied with sex, the gift of celibacy is all the more a sign of the Kingdom of Heaven where, as scripture says, there will be “no marrying or giving in marriage” (Matthew 22, 30). I encourage all Catholics to pray for and support our dedicated priests.

Thursday, May 28, 2009

Blogging spree... making up for lost time I guess.

Dear Lord, I do not ask to see the path. In darkness, in anguish and in fear, I will hang on tightly to your hand, and I will close my eyes, so that you know how much trust I place in you, Spouse of my soul.

- Blessed Mary Elizabeth Hesselblad
(h/t to Jennifer at Conversion Diary)

And some quick headlines too!

I love CNA. I really do. Their headlines are just AWESOME sometimes:
Obama picks Cuban Liberation theologian as U.S. Ambassador to the Holy See
At least they just put it on out there... Not only do they point out that he's a "strong Obama supporter" and has "significant praise from the Catholic left," but they also just scream LIBERATION THEOLOGY!!!
Favorite quote:

Although he claims to be a “defender of life in all of it stages,” Diaz was among 26 Catholic leaders and scholars who signed a statement supporting the nomination of staunch pro abortion Catholic Kathleen Sebelius as Health and Human Services Secretary.
*snerk*


Abortion supporters vandalize church, pro-life offices and university
Booo! Hissss!
Also, "Get your rosaries off our ovaries" is the best y'all can do? Really?


Kmiec proposes end of legally recognized marriage

You know, tie me up and call me a liberal, but I don't think this is a horrible idea. I've been saying for a long time that non-traditional couples want the term "marriage" because there's a certain level of psychological equality that's given there. They already have all the same rights and privileges (in CA, at least, which is where Pepperdine is and the Prop 8 stuff has been going on) - they just want to be called the same thing.

The thing is, marriage is and always has been an institution created by GOD - it's not an act of the state to sacramentally join two people. I think that by giving EVERYONE "civil unions" or whatever, and then having a priest/whatever-you-other-religious-people-use religiously validate that union... every couple is UNITED, affording them the same privileges (such as starting a family, visitation rights at the hospital, after-death legal stuff, etc.) - but they are only MARRIED in the eyes of the Church.

I wouldn't mind something like that at ALL for me personally - I think it would clear up a lot of confusion. Especially with people calling their significant other things like "partner," which does not necessarily imply religious marriage, the end of legal recognition of the term marriage would go a long way in increasing the amount of respect that mainstream, WASPy Americans have for non-traditional couples. And I don't care if you think homosexual sex is wrong (it is!) - everyone deserves respect at a basic level.

Thursday Thunks... continued...

Last Thursday I did the week's Thunks... apparently last week was part one. Here's part two:

21. How many states have you been in?
Let's see... I'll have to write this out, I've been in quite a few. Counting states where I just drove through or was only in the airport, like for a layover... 21, as best I can tell.

22. If a sexist Man is called a pig, what is a sexist Woman called?
A feminist? ;)

23. You see the one person who you absolutely despise. If you were guaranteed that he/she couldn't say or do anything back to you... What would you do??
The thing is, as much as I would LIKE to castrate my Ex sometimes, I'd rather have him be able to talk back - so I'd slip him some truth serum and interrogate. THEN maybe kick him where it hurts.

24. How many states are to the right of you? And don’t give us a map to look at.
None. East Coast, holla!

25. You can go anywhere in the world for free. Where are you?
Dublin. Unless "go anywhere for free" includes a spending budget, in which case I will be leaving my penthouse apartment in Manhattan to go shopping.

26. HOW MANY FINGERS AM I HOLDING UP?
Two.

27. Are you a boxing fan? Do you think there will be a rematch of the Hatton-Pacquiao fight?
I have no idea what that is. I think boxing is kind of boring - I watched WWF in high school, don't judge!

28. What is the most disgusting thing you have ever eaten?
I don't even know... Brussels sprouts? Lima beans? Probably lima beans. I've found that Brussels sprouts can be tolerable when cooked right.

29. Is it cloudy right now?
It's sad that I had to go run and check... sad because I don't have a window anywhere near me, and sad that I actually felt the compulsion to actually get up and check. It's cloudy, but those thin sort of clouds so there's still plenty of sunlight filtering through. It's going to rain today, supposedly.

30. What is your dream job?
Party planner - weddings, sure, but things like engagement parties, anniversary parties, etc.

31. Someone gives you a $500 gift card to WalMart or Target. What are you going to buy?
Lots and LOTS of clothes? Or maybe a desk or a really comfy chair for my bedroom.

32. When you were little, what did you want to be "when you grow up"? And, how much different is your occupation now from where you thought it would be when you were younger?
I wanted to be everything - a model/ballerina/actress, of course (this was BEFORE I realized I was destined to be a midget)... A district attorney - I remember that one distinctly... a teacher, a business woman (you know, MBA type of thing)...
The "events planning" thing really only arose when I looked at myself right after graduation and thought, "The only part of public relations that I actually LIKE is planning parties. I plan parties all the time. I think I'd
be pretty damn good at doing it professionally." Then I found the job I'm in currently and it's really sparked something in me.

33. what was your favorite toy as a child?
Barbies and Legos, pretty much equally.

[34 is lame]

35. Why do you think so many "fake" veterans get away with pretending? Why don't people question them more (especially the media who eats up their stories?)
Um, what "fake veterans"? Did I miss something here?

36. What is the last place you had a good cry and why?
Oh gosh, on Tuesday night I was going through piles of stuff (spring cleaning!) in my room, and came across my "things The Ex gave me that I'm either donating or burning" pile... I found one particular stuffed animal and just started sobbing. So I just flopped down on the floor and let it all out. I'm a little horrified that I had that reaction, but hey.

[37 is also stupid]

38. Which Sesame Street Character do you relate with the most and why?
Probably Elmo - I guess just the sunny personality. Or maybe Grover?

39. What song one would you listen to over and over if you absolutely had to?
Currently I've got "This One's for the Girls" (Martina McBride) on repeat on my iTunes. Before that, it was "If I Can't Have You" by Adam Lambert.

40. Did you ever make what you believed at the time to be a horrible mistake - that in hindsight turned out to lead you on the best path in your life?
You know, I don't think I've made any "horrible mistakes" in my life, except for the ones I still regret. I guess time will tell with those.

41. If you could change one thing on your person, what would it be?
I'd make myself incapable of gaining weight. Or maybe I'd make myself taller (like 5'5" I guess, with proper proportions) and therefore any fat would have more room to spread out, and I could wear clothes made for NORMAL people.

42. What’s your favorite show to watch on television nowadays?
FAVORITE show? Impossible. Well, American Idol is over for the season, so is House and 24... But I'm REALLY excited for Glee (which just aired its pilot but won't begin its season until Fall), and Mental looks really interesting (I have the pilot taped, just haven't had a chance to watch it).
Also, I am not-so-secretly addicted to trashy reality dating shows like Daisy of Love, which is entirely reprehensible but very very entertaining.

43. Do you believe there is life after death?
Clearly.

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

Catholic Headline News

All headlines from CNA, emphases and comments mine as usual.

New 'orthodox Anglican' diocese forms in western U.S.
Excerpt:

Rev. [Bill] Thompson [rector of All Saints’ Church in Long Beach, CA] charged that the Episcopal Church had crossed “a bridge too far” for his fellow Anglicans in its move away from “the ‘faith once delivered’” and its official approval of “behaviors that are contrary to Scripture.”
"It was time to go,” he told Virtue Online. “We realize it is not without pain. There is a cost to discipleship and many of us are paying that price in litigation and more. But we are called to be faithful to our Lord first and foremost."
Archdiocese of Newark leads the nation in priestly ordinations
"Ten of the [thirteen] ordinands were foreign-born, with three from Colombia, two from Nigeria, and one each from Italy, Ecuador, South Korea, the Dominican Republic and Hungary. Several of the foreign-born priests grew up in the United States."
According to a church historian at Seton Hall, 1/3 of the Catholics in the AD are foreign-born, so this isn't exactly a representative sample... but that's not the point. 13 new priests really is a lot these days - let us thank God for this, and pray for more!

The rest of the article has some more really interesting stats and stories, including one priest who found his vocation through working as a funeral director. Go check it out!

Vatican publishes Compendium to guide Church in China
It's basically a fuller guide to the letter B16 gave them in 2007 (here), addressing some of the more "delicate points" he made.

Two women killed in attack on Catholic church in Nepal

Apparently it is believed to be the work of Hindu extremists. This concerns me because a very good friend of mine, who is Catholic, is in Nepal right now teaching English.

The country has been in some (mild-ish) form of civil war for a while now, but none of it has been directed toward Americans. But if there are attacks targeted against Catholics, the possibility remains that Americans visiting churches could be at risk. Please keep Nathan in your prayers, and all Catholics in Nepal right now.


STILL WAITING... on word from the Alameda County school district about the results from last night's school board meeting. With the 3-hour time difference, hopefully word will be posted on the website by 11am EST. We shall see.

PENDING... I'm on page 4 of 104 of the CA Supreme Court's decision and opinions from yesterday. (104 pages AFTER I shrunk down the size of the text!) This will obviously take a while, but at first glance, the reasoning behind the decision seems really solid and has nothing at all to do with homosexuality outright, just the ability of the people of California to amend their own Constitution. Very interesting stuff. Or maybe I'm just a nerd.
(If you want to struggle through it with me, the links are in my most previous post.)

That's it for today! Stay classy, San Diego.

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

*headDESK*

EDIT 2: Press release here (PDF)

EDIT:
The CA Supreme Court's opinion on the Prop 8 case, mentioned at the end of this post, has just been published (UPHOLDING Prop 8!) can be found here in PDF form, and here in Word.

From CNA: Compulsory LGBT curriculum pushes 'political agenda' on schoolkids, California parents charge
Emphases and comments courtesy of your friendly (ha!) neighborhood Cookie

A California school district decision to mandate a new curriculum requiring children as young as five years old to be taught about homosexual and transgender communities has prompted significant protest from parents who charged that a "political agenda" is pressing age-inappropriate material upon their children.

The Unified School District in Alameda has proposed a curriculum with the stated intention of addressing bullying, respect and acceptance. The curriculum includes a 45-minute Lesbian Gay Bisexual and Transgendered (LGBT) lesson once a year from kindergarten through fifth grade. The kindergarten lesson will focus on the harm of teasing (fine - no one should have to endure teasing because they look different) while the fifth graders will study sexual orientation stereotypes (also fine), Fox News reports.

Second grade course material includes a children’s book about homosexual penguins trying to create a family. (Because, you know, that sort of thing happens in nature ALL THE TIME. Oh wait.) The book is titled "And Tango Makes Three."

Protesting parents in Alameda, a suburb of San Francisco and Oakland, said the curriculum is definitely not age-appropriate (meh) and the issues are best learned at home (yes, because no parent will gay-bash instead of teaching love and respect for everyone). They were also angry they will not be allowed to keep their children out of the classes. (It's called private school!)

"I believe these children are far too young to be learning about what these issues mean," Alaina Stewart, an Alameda mother of three elementary school children, told Fox News. "These are adult issues and they are being thrust upon the children." (Yes, but behaviors are learned early.)

One father of schoolchildren charged that the policy would violate the First Amendment rights of those who don’t support homosexuality because of their religion.

Kirsten Vital, superintendent of the Alameda Unified School District, said students reported feeling bullied on LGBT issues.

"This work is in response to teachers asking for tools to combat name-calling and bullying at school," she told Fox News. (YES! Exactly! School should be a safe place.)

One parent named Michael Williams said he thought LGBT issues would come up anyway and that teachers should be prepared to help kids "respond appropriately."

Another father named David, who asked that his last name be withheld, told Fox News an "overwhelming" majority of parents spoke against the LGBT instruction at one of the school board meetings, but their protests had little effect.

"The chairman of the school board repeatedly claimed to the audience that the curriculum is evenly supported and opposed," he said. "I am beginning to lose confidence of the board, as it seems to have a preconceived political agenda and [does] not truly represent their constituents’ opposition to the curriculum."

Karen England, a spokeswoman for the conservative policy advocacy group Capitol Resource Institute, noted that there are five protected categories under anti-discrimination laws but the curriculum only focuses on sexual orientation. (This is where things start to go haywire. There SHOULD be a focus on anti-bullying for ALL of these categories.)

She told Fox News she believes the curriculum committee purposely excluded religion. England suggested "an agenda is being pushed."

A May 21 report from the Capitol Resource Institute said that school board meetings had been packed with people and claimed 90 percent of those who spoke opposed the curriculum. The only speakers allowed during the Monday continuation of a May 12 meeting were those who had attended the first meeting.

Saying that speakers were "courteous" and presented "well-reasoned, articulate opposition," the Capitol Resource Institute reported that hecklers "repeatedly booed and hissed when parents and students rose to express their opposition.["]

One man angry that he was not allowed to address the audience about his support for the homosexual schoolwork physically charged one woman presenter, forcing other men in the audience to come to her defense and forcibly remove the attacker.

One father denounced the actions of homosexual advocates, saying "This bullying is taking place by the people you're asking me to entrust my children to!"

He also said he had recently been labeled a bigot and a white supremacist for expressing his opposition to what he called social indoctrination.

According to the Capitol Resource Institute, the few speakers who favored the curriculum repeatedly stated that the LGBT curriculum was "just a start" and "the first step" in teaching equality in classrooms. Some reportedly told the board that no parental opt-out should be allowed because the children of curriculum opponents were those who most needed the instruction.

Another speaker at the meeting, an Alameda principal and teacher for 45 years, said the curriculum would place teachers in a very difficult position. She expressed concern over the questions sexual classroom teaching would prompt in young children and was booed by supporters of the curriculum.

The final vote on the curriculum will take place on the evening of Tuesday May 26.

This happening today, on the same day that the CA Supreme Court will be issuing an opinion on Prop 8. Interesting timing?

It needs to be said that schools should be safe zones for all children - bullying for whatever reason needs to be stopped, and the bullies need to be taught why what they are doing is wrong. That's not to say that "Tango Makes 3" really fits that goal... there is clearly some tweaking that needs to be done. Homosexual behavior may be wrong, but homosexuality itself cannot be denied, and no one deserves to be spat upon (figuratively or literally) because they are biologically attracted to a particular someone.

I don't know where I heard this (it may have been EWTN's "Theology of the Body for Teens" but I could be entirely wrong), but there was a point made recently that there are two typical practiced behaviors of homosexuality:

1) Gay and in the closet

2) Gay and openly promiscuous

However, the Church teaches a third: Gay, not closeted, but living chastely, as we are ALL called to live chastely. Too much is made of homosexuals, I think - no one knows what anyone does behind closed doors - even the biggest drag queen of them all may just be putting on a show. Just because I'm straight does not mean I have sex all the time. I mean, come on. [/rant]

This went in a totally different direction than I expected it to, but anti-gay sentiments have been everywhere lately (at least where I've been looking, particularly concerning American Idol) and I had to get it off my chest.

I'd love to hear your thoughts on all this... or any of this...

Monday, May 25, 2009

May 25

Today is the 8-year anniversary (EIGHT YEARS) of the day I fell in love for the first time. It's ridiculous to think how long ago that was, and how much I've changed since then.

Sunday, May 24, 2009

My new bed!

Now, who can I find to assemble it for me? ;)



It looks black, I know, but it's actually a really dark brown. Wooooo!

Just when I think they don't know me at all...

...My parents surprise me with QUITE the appropriate bevy of birthday presents.

  • Cherry cheesecake (my dad's recipe, which I drool over)
  • Box of chai tea
  • Box of Twinings brand Earl Grey tea
  • A gift set of... wait for it... Bailey's Irish Cream. The same gift set that a seminarian friend of mine gave me for Christmas. (Maybe they're trying to tell me something?)
  • Giftcards for Harris Teeter, gas (BP), Bath and Body Works, Kohls, and Outback Steakhouse
And the best one... my mom's taking me shopping for an ACTUAL bed! All I have now is the metal frame that keeps it off the ground. She's paying for the headboard, and (since the rest of it is slightly unnecessary but I want it anyway) I'm paying for the rest. IKEA HERE I COME.

And of course, tomorrow's Memorial Day cookout... I convinced my dad to do ribs (his are the BEST), I'm making potato salad, and there are Coronas and limes in the fridge just for me! :)
This weekend has turned out surprisingly well so far, and definitely better than I expected.

awwww :)

i carry your heart with me(i carry it in
my heart)i am never without it(anywhere
i go you go,my dear; and whatever is done
by only me is your doing,my darling)
i fear
no fate(for you are my fate,my sweet)i want
no world(for beautiful you are my world,my true)
and it's you are whatever a moon has always meant
and whatever a sun will always sing is you

here is the deepest secret nobody knows
(here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud
and the sky of the sky of a tree called life;which grows
higher than the soul can hope or mind can hide)
and this is the wonder that's keeping the stars apart

i carry your heart(i carry it in my heart)

ee cummings